OMG WTF

Do You Want to be Known as The Dumb One?

Why do people insist on trying to make relationships work that obviously are not going to work? I have friends that I swear search out bad relationships. They find guys that are worthless or just assholes and then they try to date them. Then other times they find guys and try to completely change who they are. Why do that? Just find a guy that you like just the way he is and go from there. I also know guys that are just as bad. They are in a relationship or married and they insist on cheating and trying to find a side chick then get mad when the side chick wants more. You cant go around telling girls you love them and that you will leave your wife or girlfriend for them. Then when they want you to hold up to that and you don't they get mad and stop talking to you but you make them seem like the bad ones. WTF is wrong with you people? Another thing that drives me crazy is when someone stays with someone that treats them like complete shit then when they finally leave that person the jump into another relationship with another person that treats them like crap and tries so hard to make it work. Women like this need to realize there are better guys out there and men like this need to stop latching onto a piece of ass or staying with someone just cuz you have kids together. Relationships like these are worse for kids then divorce or breakups of their parents. Don't believe me google it. Here I did that for you,(click the link) proof 

My life is no where near perfect but I try my hardest to be happy and make my kids happy. I would never stay with an abusive person no mater what. People turn off your asshole/bitch radar and start looking for a good person. Make standards and stick to them. For example a few of mine are, I don't want to date convicts, drug addicts, or dumb asses. I want them to be independent, funny, and good with kids. Seems simple but you would be surprised how many people don't stick to their own standards when looking for someone. Also I feel that if you are not comfortable introducing your kids to the person they are not worth a first date. I'm not saying to introduce them to your kids right away but trust your gut if they make you feel uncomfortable then don't do it. Oh and to my cheating married friends, get a divorce you weren't cut out for marriage i feel sorry for your spouse unless they are dumb enough to know about your infidelities and stay with your loser ass then they are the real dumb asses.